Is stepmother hiding the inheritance?
Dear Len & Rosie,
My father passed away last December. He and his wife set up a trust with an attorney a few years ago. My sister and I are his only legal adult children. His wife had five adult children when they married in 1982. I am trying to be sensitive to his wife in this difficult time. Unfortunately, she stopped talking to me before he died.
Months have passed and I have not heard anything regarding his will. I would like to know if my father designated any personal effects and/or money to me in his will. Are there any rules or regulations that require them to notify me if I am mentioned in his will? What happens to his designation to my sister? She is out of contact with the family and unaware of his death.
What can you tell me about estate notices I sometimes see in the newspaper? Does this notice apply to will that is held in a living trust?
California law has several things to say about what happens to your father’s estate planning documents upon his death. If he had a will, and he probably did because most people who create trusts have pour-over wills leaving their estates to their trust, then the person in possession of the original will must file the will with the Superior Court in the county where your father resided upon his death. If his will was properly lodged with the court, you can get a copy of it from the court’s files.
But your father and his wife had a trust, and that makes it different. Whether or not you are entitled to a copy of the trust depends on how the trust was written. If all or part of the trust became irrevocable upon your father’s death, then the trustee is required by California Probate Code section 16061.7 to notify you within 60 days of your father’s death of the existence of the trust and your right to a copy of the trust document.
On the other hand, if your father’s trust didn’t become irrevocable upon his death, then you do not have a right to a copy of the trust. This puts you in a Catch-22. Is your stepmother not giving you a copy because she’s being sneaky? Or is she merely protecting her right to privacy by not giving you information you’re not entitled to anyway.
You have a couple of options. One is to get a copy of the deed to your father’s residence. It’s probably in the trust, and you may get the name and address of his lawyer off of the face of the deed. If so, contact the lawyer and ask what’s going on. You may get some information that way.
If that doesn’t work, you can hire a lawyer to send your stepmother a letter demanding a copy of the trust. Even if you’re not entitled to a copy, this letter will likely cause your stepmother to visit her own lawyer, and that will probably result in everything being straightened out. But beware. If your stepmother has the right to amend the trust, she’ll likely disinherit any step-child she perceives as being “pushy”. Tread lightly.
Len & Rosie
Len Tillem and Rosie McNichol are elder law attorneys. Contact them at 846 Broadway, Sonoma, CA 95476, by phone at 707.996.4505 or Lentillem.com.